Freeing Yourself From Gurus

by Mark Levy

A consultant named Tim was telling me about the field he worked in. He, in fact, wanted to write a book about it. Tim admitted, though, that he was intimidated by a famed guru who has spent years speaking and writing in that same field as he.

What, Tim wondered, could he possibly say that hadn’t already been said by the guru?

I’ve heard that lament before. What it comes down to is this:

Tim was confusing the guru’s contribution to the field with the totality of that field. He was looking at the guru’s opinions, excellent though they might be, as the only ones  possible. It was as if the guru’s smarts, charisma, and accomplishments were blinding him to all the alternate ways of approaching the subject.

“Let the work of this guru inspire you.” I said. “Be grateful that such a vivid thinker has shared so much. Celebrate him and parade his work to others. But don’t let the strength of his voice stop you from using your voice.”

Each of us has something distinctive and interesting to contribute if we give ourselves the freedom to do so. We have experiences, stories, and ideas that can add texture to a subject, or take it in new directions.

At times, though, we must free ourselves from the magnetic pull that we’ve let others have on our thinking.

One way of giving yourself distance is by studying the subject you want to write about more comprehensively. You may, in fact, be unduly influenced by a guru’s work, because you’re focused too narrowly on their thinking to the exclusion of others.

Another way of giving yourself distance is by examining your career, not at first for abstract ideas, but for concrete success stories. Once you’ve jotted down a few stories, study them and see if any insights appear organically. You may be sitting on an unusual approach or helpful anecdote, and you don’t even realize it. Let the facts lead you.

Remember, each of us can contribute. We have knowledge and perspective that could help others if only they knew about it. Don’t let others’ outstanding work blind you to the value of your own gifts and experiences.

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Larry

Crisp, to the point, and oh such a good reminder! If all of us would get in the habit of stepping back, pausing, and seeing what sits right in front of us and should be but all too often isn’t obvious… imagine. Great insight, Mark.

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Mark Levy

Thanks, Larry. I’m honored.

I agree: Sometimes what should be obvious to us gets buried or complicated. Reminders are a big help.

By the way, I have your book, “A Deliberate Pause,” on my night table stand, ready for reading.

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Mark Levy

Thanks for the kind words about the post, Richard. Thanks, too, for your excellent thoughts about contribution as a societal mandate, rather than as a personal nicety. Much appreciated.

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richardmpotter

“Remember, each of us can contribute.”

I’ll go as far as saying, each of us SHOULD contribute. The world needs each person to be living out their purpose for the benefit of the rest of us.

Great suggestions on broadening your exposure to multiple opinion-holders and opinion-molders. Thanks for sharing!

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